
Optimism -- Apparently, it's innate.
In 2011, the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences concluded that optimism is rooted in the hormone oxytocin, known as the “lovey dovey” hormone – and that it is strengthened by receptor genes within one's genetic makeup. In other words – your genes can affect your positive outlook, happiness, and optimistic view about the world.
So, does that mean – you either got it, or you don't?
Like all things in life, sometimes you have to work a little harder on something in order to achieve it. If optimism doesn't come to you naturally, or wasn't given to you from mom and dad's gene pool, it is a worthwhile investment to try to improve upon. There are a myriad of reasons why. Some reasons include:
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Research has showed optimism promotes longevity
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Reduces stress levels
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Increases productivity – leading to success at work
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Improves your social life and personal relationships
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Makes you proactive
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Helps you maintain an open mindedness toward change and improvement
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Promotes forgiveness
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Helps avoid depression
If you're not a natural positive thinker – how do you become one? Here are some tips from Ayo Olaniyan, a certified Unitive Life Coach. He is also an Accredited Professional Counselor with the Counseling Society United Kingdom.
- Have realistic goals and expectations
- Always remember you are human with a lot of imperfections
- Acknowledge past events, but endeavor to manage the present with a view to creating a brighter future
- Don't fall into the trap of feeling hopeless.
- Be true to yourself
- Network with people who show optimism in their daily lives
- Believe in your dreams
So whether or not you are a natural optimist – your personal and professional life will greatly benefit from looking on the brighter side.